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Should I date now, or wait? And what kind of girl should I look for?
I am finishing up my sophomore year of college and plan to graduate on time in a couple of years. I plan to start my career in federal law enforcement with the Marshal's Service directly after I graduate. I gave up playing Division 1 baseball for a girl that I was certain I was going to marry (who promptly left me for my best friend's roommate, ouch right?). The thought was I wanted to stay close to her so I settled for a small school close to home after I graduated from high school. I'm worried that if I get involved now with a girl, that I will make the same mistake again. I really want this for my future. It's an outstanding job and something I can be proud of. But I let my heart overrule my head. I don't trust myself. If I meet and fall for another girl, I'm afraid of the direction my future will take. Too many of my friends have had to give up their dreams to get married, or because of kids. So should I chance it? There is no shortage of girls that are interested, but if I do choose one, what kind of girl do you think I should pick? just the cutest one? or the one I can see myself with later? Just someone to have fun with? I'm pretty lost... (that's a very vague question and I apologize lol) I know this may be a lot to ask but... I'd love some input. Thanks =)
Public Comments
- just enjoy it. don't have high or low expectations. enjoy life
- chase your dreams and if you do want to date a girl =] date one that will follow you no matter what, including letting you follow your dreams
- Wow. You seem like the kind of person that would do just about anything for someone you cared about. Amazing. There are not too many people like you left in this world. I'm sorry you gave up so much, for it turning out so horribly. My advice would be to finish off school. I'm sure you've worked very hard to get where you are today. Falling in love takes a lot of time, and plenty of trust. Find a girl that understands that you mean business about your schooling, make her know that it is important to you. Be sure that the one you find, is someone you can imagine yourself with even on the very worst of days. Your heart might overrule your head, but sometimes it's not such a bad thing, if what you risk is what you gain back. Good luck with everything.
- aWwWw u sound like a very sweet guy!! o.k well i'm 23 & a single mom... i know how it feels to want r need another person to validate me. now i just pray to god for him to bring into my life the person that he has chosen for me & no longer do my will (cause my will was not good at all!!!) So my advise is to pray to god to show you the type of girl it is that you need, don't go by looks because that is not enough, you need someone that you can look up to in a sense, that you can respect, that you can see yourself in, you don't need a "mean time" girl (why waste your precious time), just stay focus on your future & god will do the rest!!! God bless!!! & good luck!!
- You learned from your mistake and your next girl should understand your dream and how important it is to you.You just need a girl that understands you,accepts your furture plans and one you can just talk to about anything.
