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My sister Life! is it in my hand?

my sister 33 year old have a 10 year old daughter & she applied for divorce recently bcoz husband not working & not take care of family (lazy person), same time someone govt employee SC/ST caste unmarried person 45year old proposed to my sister, we are Telugu Balija shetty caste & my parents dont like SC/ST caste so not like this person, but my sister think she can secured if get married this person bcoz he have money, Government job. this person meet me recently and ask me to help for same. but as a brother my problem if i help she my parents dont like me if i not help her what will happening?

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First of all, your English is not very good and second of all most people on here do not know what the caste system in Hinuism is. Also you did not provide enough information. My suggestion is that you help her.
hey first find the reason why your sister want to marry that guy? for money security or for love and relation? getting a new life after divorce and specially when u have a child which will be accepted that sounds really good but if ur sis is marrying him just for money or security i will say don't go for it that will create problem but if she wants to get married coz she sees potential and love in it then support her coz in our Society it is really hard to get a new life after divorce tell your parents that until your sister is happy has a home n family of her own they should not go into cast and all that this kind of people are rare to find if it is good and u see love in it i will say go and support your sister
Getting separated is ok. but what about your niece? before marriage any one can accept to adopt the child. but after marriage??? are you willing to take the child burden if he refuses to see the child after their marriage? 2. Family quarrels is like a waves on the water. no doubt the parents will talk to you. 3. first know the background of this new groom. if the history is good, go ahead. all the best.
The lady needs a man in her life also. Caste system is despicable. Be with your sis if this man is man enough and on his feet to support your sister.
first of all ask your sister does she love the guy who is proposed her or is she getting married for money sake.. if she is getting married for money sake , she can be independent take a job and take care of her child why do you have to bother with this money matters... have a talk with youe sis and find out what exactly she needs...
What kind of a help does he want ? Your sister can handle her love life, she knows best whether she is marrying for love or money, u should not interfere It is not a question of life and death for your sister, nor is it love, just convenience and security as she has a 10 year old daughter to support.