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What is the best way to deal with the memory of an ex?
I have an ex from 8 years ago. She burned my heart badly. I lost most of my friendships, lost four good jobs, and eventually got arrested for assaulting a federal police officer after being fired on birthday, losing my wallet and totalling my brand new convertible. So, I am wondering, when thats not enough pain and suffering to get over it, how do I take the next step? Is there something that most people do to get over it?
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- Find a creative outlet. Writing, music, booze...
- Yes! Just remember WHY she was no good for you. Also, work on improving yourself and building your self confidence so that you can get out there and find another girl who is even better!
- Dude. I am sorry that all this happened for you. Ive gone through junk like that but not as bad as you have. Out of curiosity, have you tried maybe going to a party and having some fun. Sometimes the best way to get over something is open up (which is the hardest thing to do) while your with some friends. Tell people about what she did to "burn your heart" so bad. Seriously, talking helps the most. I know someone who got into something like that and went to therapy. It helps ALOT!!! I tried it and it works. but not at frist. dont expect results, let them come to you when your not even thinking about it. take about 3-5 sessions and if it doesnt work. find another, there are plenty out there and only a few that can actually help. Go party and hang out for a while on a saturday night so that you can feel the freedom of being single and what is out there for you. It'll help. If ya need help or something like that, add me as a friend and just message me. im on and about almost everday. I got plenty more advice if those dont work.
